September 15, 2015
What? Live in a bubble of kindness and love for the rest of your life? What
are the odds?
Imagine yourself flowing without frustrations or misgivings, touching
and being touched in the kindest way everywhere you go—even if other folks are rude, nasty, blaming, lying or impatient. How
about fiercely allowing your heart to open for both yourself and everyone you meet, so that the peace and contentment that
usually seems so elusive becomes a living reality?
Well the funny thing is that
on the one hand, LOVE—that is the real LOVE that feels so cozy, kind, supportive, totally connected and really like
HOME in ways that you never thought possible is already in you. Oh, yeah!
The challenge is that in order to reach that LOVE, to spread that LOVE, to be fully present to experience that amazing
innate LOVE we need to do some real, fully Conscious work on ourselves, to upgrade our mind and emotions--to “shine
our own instrument, so to speak.” After all, our mind and emotions are where really experience LOVE, isn’t
Now first let’s get things straight. You know that I am
not talking about sexual love. That is great, but I suspect that sex can be just a distraction from real LOVE if
you if you aren’t tuned into the real thing. But with the real thing—wow! Deep LOVE as the
foundational flow between two people would be heaven. Yes!
brand of True LOVE is not used as a “hook,” as Yogi Bhajan used to call it. That is, “Since I
love you, you give me what I want.” And what “I want” is usually for you to “meet my needs”
or make me feel whole, which no one in the world can actually do for you. That is really a premise built for failure. Have
you discovered that yet? Only when you uncover your own rich and beautiful LOVE that authentically resides within
will you finally feel whole, loved and be so happy with what the Flow, or the action of your Beloved Creator sends your way
in every moment. That, Sweet One is the very heart of your Divine relationship with your own most powerfully kind
and sweet Self.
Also, I am not talking about people-pleasing, or putting yourself
last as a martyr, or being sticky sweet, which is actually nauseating and quite a distance from pure LOVE, because True LOVE
starts at home, right there in your own heart. It is humbly for and from your Self, your Soul and is the opposite
of narcissism. That is where you get consistent access to that treasure trove of being “beautiful, bountiful and blissful”!
Your True LOVE is not based in any return that you get from other people, from your job satisfaction,
from your living quarters, from your bank account, or from fancy vacations, etc. Although those things are marvelous
and tremendous, if we are really dependent on all that stuff to supply our own innate LOVE—well, you guessed it, none
of that is really dependable. So, you can bottom out really quickly if these ephemeral things are what you depend
on to give you LOVE and happiness. I don’t actually have to tell you that, eh? You already got
it? And they don’t go deep enough to be that “forever” kind of satisfying, do they? The
thing is that you, and everyone around you is very deep, whether they acknowledge it or not, and that is what we are all looking
Don’t we long for the deepest parts of ourselves to
be held, to be known, to be loved and appreciated for who we actually are--whether we are “perfect” or not; whether
we live up to everyone else’s standards becomes irrelevant; what we have done or not done, or who we will become is
beyond the actual question. We just ARE! We ARE simple, we ARE free, we flow and expand so naturally,
we are connection itself, and we constantly experience gentle, compassionate and very real LOVE, just because.
True LOVE doesn’t have anything to do with worthiness. When you experience
True LOVE from within, you become free of all restrictions, and you live so comfortably in the pure Present, without worry
about what will come or what has happened. Now that doesn’t mean that all those crazy and challenging things
will automatically stop. Nope! They continue on as usual, but do we get hung up in them? And
it doesn’t mean that we become Pollyannas who simply keep themselves in the clouds to avoid what is happening on the
Earth level. Quite the opposite.
Opening to this confident and peaceful
grace is what the spiritual path is all about. It is not actually some high and mighty course. To the
contrary, it is coming down to the pure humility that we are all in this together, so might as well be kind and flowing from
your very heart, even if others are lost in their judgments, their crappiness, their depressions—well, you know the
So, let’s go to what is really solid so you can open yourself
to it. And that is the “place” of Soul or the Soul Dimension and you get there by way of your Heart.
Begin with Heart
Breath in the moment www.SoulAnswer.com/heart_breath.html . If you sincerely do it, your vibe will change quickly to the point that you are no longer stuck in your
own junk. Things begin to flow, and you are able to finally switch out of your emotional jail to the Soul Dimension! It
is subtle, yet this is so very powerful! This is how you allow the frequency of LOVE to flow through yourself and
actually radiate out to others who may be opposing you or in a frenzy of negativity, and so on. This is how you
actually bring Peace and LOVE to this world in a very “concrete” way. And yes, it is miraculous!
As you know by now, when some folks were being really nasty to me, Soul just told me to love
them. And over time, this attention to LOVE appears to be healing both me and them—believe it!
Yes, this mantra is most incredible! It breaks the hold of ugliness and blocks both within yourself and
others—your “enemies”! It is most extraordinary. www.SoulAnswer.com/gobinde.html. Try it for yourself if you really and truly want change so that you may be engulfed in LOVE! Remember,
this is a process, so keep up and you will be kept up.
That’s right, gratitude for every little and big thing. Be grateful even
for the hardest karmas that come your way. I have found in my healing practice that when folks heal through outrageous
turmoil from this life or others, and I ask them to ask Soul why they chose that particular karma, the answer inevitably is
“to learn compassion”. So, might as well get a head start on your compassion by sending LOVE to one
and all, including yourself.
Now I want to be clear. I am not asking that you be gooey sweet all the time. But I am asking
that you stay totally tuned into Soul through Heart Breath that brings true neutrality, which leads to full connection with
Soul www.SoulAnswer.com/soul.html . Then if boundaries need to be made for protection of yourself or for others, you can make them from really
grounded awareness about the situation and have no fear about enforcing them with strength and Truth. This supports
everyone’s integrity, and really allows the workable flow of LOVE.
When you just can’t seem to move forward with this LOVE,
and you feel stuck or any other emotions come to take you over, remember to go through the whole healing process. You
are healing those “Trances,” or repeating virtual realities that will trip you up every time. You can
see more about that in last week’s article, “The Consciousness Wars”.
TREAT ALL WITH KINDNESS AND GRACE
This was actually Yogi Bhajan’s
prime recipe for prosperity! When you go beyond your own wounds or limits in your communication with others and
with yourself, and you acknowledge people right where they are with no judgment, you actually go to the very heart of them. Be
sure this is not fake, but your own genuine openness of heart and sharing of the heart flow. This seemingly slight change
will help you and all your relationships smooth out through those many frustrations and annoyances, I betcha!
I found that my biggest challenges in this regard are tech support and car repair people
who are telling me a line. My first inclination is to hit the roof. But if I stay with this Heart Breath
and flow in a kindly manner, if I skip over the “not true” or annoying stuff in the moment, do Heart Breath and
lead to the resolution of the problem, it works out best not only for them, but for me as well.
Remember, your LOVE BUBBLE is actually your own aura that is expanding from your open and flowing heart. And it reaches
out through your radiance which is essentially the magnification of the Light from your very Soul, your God Self! This
is yours to nurture and to share. There is no greater reward on Earth, I assure you. It may be hard-won,
but I think that’s better than not putting in the effort to flow and polish your LOVE BUBBLE than to live in that defunct,
abject pain of flatness and emptiness.
Feel the buoyancy in your own LOVE BUBBLE! Enjoy
it! That is where you will find what you are really looking for. That is Real Life!
I would love it if you would share your own comments below. Thanks, Dear One!
Lots of Love,
Kaur Khalsa, www.SoulAnswer.org/good-reads/articles-siri-gian , 2015
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